since then we have made several updates except that now it is no longer the sites but a female colleague who sends him messages telling him that he pleases him and that she has fallen in love with him, while she knows that he is married and he calls just before coming home to kiss his wife whom he supposedly adores.
when I ask him the question his answer the same as you hear ”I do not see what I am doing wrong since I am not cheating on you and it is you that I love, that he happy with me, that on the plane sexual it is fulfilled, it is you who became jealous etc etc …
I would like to point out that last year he had a serious professional burnout depression.
Last week, again I realize that he is looking everywhere on the internet for anything that can find on his colleague and it is the clap because 8 months that I have been suffering I feel betrayed, emptied, exhausted.
We only contact each other by sms he is completely lost, he says that he has done an analysis on himself and that since his depression he has totally lost confidence in himself and all this is to draw attention to him a need of gratitude. he begs me to help him that he can never live without me. I advised her to make an appointment with a shrink and that I will also come to the appointment, because I too need to understand because for me to love a person and to chat, being interested in another girl is totally incompatible.
I am in pain because the love it very much, I am therefore waiting for this appointment dated 09 04 to have an explanation by a pro, the downside, I wonder if our couple can be rebuilt because trust in a couple is the base and after passing the sponge 6 times it has totally disappeared will it come back ???
We have been in a relationship for 7 years and we have a child who is 6 years old and non-verbal with autism. I live with this reality every day and do a lot at home. My boyfriend was sick for 5 months including depression this winter, he was not doing anything even his personal hygiene was a problem. I had to do everything sleepless nights, the paperwork for our son, the errands, the tasks such as housework, shovel snow, take out the garbage, travel the children etc etc To the point that I could not take it anymore and I am me even a little depressed. He has been back to work for 1 month and blames me for my little libido and little hugs. I have to admit that the last few months have been difficult and I am resentful because not sure he was that bad, he is very lazy already. A few days ago he told me that he registered on a dating site, I was insulted and angry about that and I told myself that I had to react and try to show more my love because that was his reproach .